Also, there is so much that a tutor ends up learning...from their student. I have always had many Hispanic friends, however I never knew the details of so many private concerns and stresses that my Columbian student has as a grown professional woman, who is working for a secondary degree. She, like many others, has insecurities about being a minority in her workplace and in the schoolroom, and we talk openly about these issues and most importantly, try to solve problems.
Anyway, all of us are "super busy". This seems to be the new badge of honor among our generation...how "super busy" we all are. How many cups of coffee we need, how over scheduled our kids are (mine are not and never will be), how much we "do do do"...but really, are we filling our time with events for us, and then claiming to be "busy"?
I have learned the past years that alot of my "business" (full time work, at times two jobs, and adding in Chamber of Commerce events, networking, etc) I also filled with with more events about "me". Once I started to realize I could spend time with my children, and have some free time every few weeks in the evenings..then I found that time for someone else. Volunteering has changed my life. My kids never knew about the charitable things I did before they were born, but you can bet they know my student, and serving their community is high on our priority list for them to be responsible young men.
Wow- it's crazy windy right now....I need to bring down our patio umbrella before it blows up on our roof like it did last year. Tornado weather coming!
Anyway, try to volunteer when you can. It will make your heart happy and will truly change someone's life.
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