salt and lime

Here's your salt - I've been married 7 years now, and one piece of advice I'd give to anyone planning a wedding is this: don't hang your stars on another person's wagon, you keep your own wagon, your own dreams and don't rely on anyone else to bring you happiness....
Here's your lime - Piece of advice to newlyweds: no nagging allowed- it's unattractive, unromantic and it DOESN'T WORK. Plus, nobody else likes being around that couple that went from fun loving and sweet (while dating) to one of bickering and acting like old farts (there's time for that when you're stuck together after ago 70.)
Our marriage isn't perfect, but one thing we learned to hold onto is a sense of fun, enjoyment, and being as young as we want to together. We don't worry about the Jones's, what people will think when we act goofy, or if our silly times are appropriate or not according to others.

tata for now, having first phase labor pains today (been 2-3 cent. since last Friday) so my mind keeps wandering to doing some more house stuff before we have to race to the hospital in an unknown future date this week. AND, an iced mocha shake sounds really good right now.